I am new to this section of the board, I have been in the newcomers section for the past year.
Some background info about my sitch:
Bomb dropped 8/21/09. Worked hard on myself and tried to save M.
Finally detached nine months in and was a much happier person. Ask W in May during a meeting to divide asset if she wanted a D, and if she thought is was the best thing for us. She answered both with a yes.
I totally moved on and didn't care about what she did.
I started to see OW and date, continued to work out and GAL.
I made all the arrangements to move forward with D. House and other items. Proposed numbers to her weeks ago and had to follow up with her again to get things rolling.
So after I asked her to meet with the mediator and I wanted to move forward with D, I get a call from her asking me if we could talk.
We will meet Saturday.
NOW. I have a funny feeling she is going to reach out to me and talk about M. Not sure but it's a possibility.
My concerns are now that I have completely detached from her how would we began to reconcile if I wanted to??
I think about our friends and family being a major problem. Among other things.
I'm not there yet andit may not happen but I'm looking for some insight here. thanks, gr8
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
