I understand the manipulation point. Again I am trying to do the best I can with my sitch. I have made the point that if the S is agreed upon, the D will have to be on hold. If she doesn't agree then what is already in process keeps going, so what do I have to lose at this point?
Pin I know being a good father is attractive, I am a good father I don't think that is the issue so much. She said last night " I am not a good person with you" she also said she is to blame for this as well because she let me be the way that made her unhappy. I informed her that when I do something that upsets you, we need to communicate about it not let it slide by. I also made the comment that ourt issues are not unique and the problems are repairable
