I agree with everyone GAG! You are doing fine and your H will give you clues if you need to back off!!!! I am so sorry about his Mother...that must be tough!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing