Originally Posted By: Gef
Went to counseling session number 2 and trust came out as a major issue. She is still in an emotional affair and I have a hard time trying to build trust. Yet she is saying (probably correct) that we can't have a relationship without trust. I can't force her away from this OM so how do I go about this. Any suggestions or ideas?


What did the counselor say about this?

Does this counselor have any experience with infidelity?

"Trust" must be EARNED. If one person in a marriage is having an affair, then they must agree to end all contact, and enter into a temporary period of complete TRANSPARENCY in order to EARN back the trust of their betrayed spouse.

I hope to God your counselor told her that.

Puppy