I agree with Lance ... be careful with the MC. I've become a big believer in "bad MC is worse than no MC". If you end up with a MC who is not decidedly pro-marriage and on the same page in terms of solution focused therapy AND you're there too early ... well, lets just say... be careful.
Keep up your IC, focus on you, detach ... you're learning the drill.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
