Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[TimeHeals]

If you agree with this, then it's time to turn this around and put the focus on you and what you want your life to be like.

I would start by saying something like this when you ask him to leave:

"I realize there is absolutely no chance of having the kind of marriage I want if you are going to be seeing other women, so you should leave. This isn't about you; it's about what I want.

And I would visit and retain an attorney if I were you because you may have to force him out.