Vulc sorry to hear your having health again. The stressfulness of the whole thing is like no other.
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And ... like I said, be prepared to listen and do very, very little speaking. How's 1%???
I hope you get good news.
one percent is about right.
I don't know what news would be good at this point. I know want I don't want and that's to go back to the way things were before.
I worked hard on myself the past year, feel pretty good about my accomplishments. I know what I want now and don't know if W could give that to me.
Like she once told me: "I don't want to waste another 5 years just to be back here again" or " We just bring out the worst in each other"
There are a lot of issues to be addressed if she does in fact reach out to me on Sat.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
at this point in my sitch and with all the crap I've been through and learned, I don't think there's anything she can say to shock me.
Well maybe one---- I'm pregnant and want to come back!
NO EXPECTATIONS!
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
I worked hard on myself the past year, feel pretty good about my accomplishments. I know what I want now and don't know if W could give that to me.
Yup. Yup. Yup. I am right there with you on that one.
Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
I don't think there's anything she can say to shock me.
Well maybe one---- I'm pregnant and want to come back!
Not to be a raging cynic, ( which I sorta have always been) but I keep waiting for H to announce he knocked up fat f^&king whore. At this point, that's about the only thing H can say that will shock/amaze/possibly hurt me.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
at this point in my sitch and with all the crap I've been through and learned, I don't think there's anything she can say to shock me.
Well maybe one---- I'm pregnant and want to come back!
NO EXPECTATIONS!
Just remember, there's nothing wrong with you saying to her -- in response to WHATEVER she brings up -- "I'm just not sure how I feel about that anymore."
or
"I'm afraid it's not that easy anymore."
or
"I don't know HOW I feel."
or
"I'm not sure WHAT I want to do. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with me, and I'll certainly think hard about them."
at this point in my sitch and with all the crap I've been through and learned, I don't think there's anything she can say to shock me.
Well maybe one---- I'm pregnant and want to come back!
NO EXPECTATIONS!
Just remember, there's nothing wrong with you saying to her -- in response to WHATEVER she brings up -- "I'm just not sure how I feel about that anymore."
or
"I'm afraid it's not that easy anymore."
or
"I don't know HOW I feel."
or
"I'm not sure WHAT I want to do. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with me, and I'll certainly think hard about them."
etc.
Puppy
And PDT takes another one long...
I wish there was a way to rank posts, so ones like this could have 5 stars.
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