MM78, Your H does not have your or the family's best interests in mind right now. You have to take the lead on being prepared.
Have you seen a L to know where you stand?
Do you have access to money in your name only?
Do you have a support network?
Have you read up on exposure?
Do you really understand boundaries?
Are you taking care of yourself - physically, mentally, emotionally and spirtually?
Don't ask a WAS to decide anything, you decide for yourself what is best and take the appropiate action. Goals - Plan- Action. Think don't react (emotion).
No matter what happens make your mind up to come out of this a wiser, stronger, healthier and better woman. Thrive don't survive. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.