I agree with you, and mistake or not, I told him that exact thing last night. I said I probably should have told you to just go when you said that 2.5 years ago.... honestly though I was either a few weeks or months into a surprise pregnancy at the time and caring for a 15 month baby as well.
He's at work - I'm packing his bag and putting it in his car for tonight (he goes to another state for Board exams) so when he gets home he can just leave and not dwell here. He'll be back for work Friday and I can only assume after that he's heading back 500 miles north. I'm not sure what to do with myself. I'm becoming indifferent. There is only so many times one can hear 'I just don't love you' and continue to fight on. I want my family to work though, I do, but I'm quite discouraged.
Me 32 H 32 Ds 3.5 and 1.5 M 5 years, T 14 years EA/Bomb: 7/1/10 PA revealed: 9/14/10 Legally separated: 10/01/10