Awest,I forgot to respond to something you said- it's not cake eating because you're getting divorced! You also said it's nice that you can be yourself.

I totally agree and can relate to both- I mean it is freeing to not have to worry about how H will interpret our actions! It is freeing to just "be" and not want H back!

About being a mentor- what a compliment and what a good distraction. I have a new room and several changes at my school as well but it keeps things fresh! Especially because of the "new life" we are embarking!

What are you doing about your last name, btw?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004