I did realize while laying in bed that I have neglected and surpressed this woman physically, emotionally and sexually for so many years. And treated her more like a mother than a wife.
I can sooooo relate to this statement. read my sitch from the begining. The two years leading up to my bomb we were living more like roommate then H and W.
Don't take all the blame for the breakdown. I too felt the tearing apart of my family and everything we worked for to have.
So now that you busted the EA you need to validate her feelings and show her you are working on you. Do the 180s, GALing and make positive changes for you.
This is easier said then done. But the sooner you do it the better your chances.
Don't let her see you cry, take control and be the best dad for your kids.
PLease don't ever bring up R talk with her or talk about future plans.
Keep an eye on your finances if you have a joint account. Protect yourself and kids first.
Again you will survive this. Tough situations go away, tough poeple don't.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
