Well my W isn't wavering from her stance to reconcile. She even initiates hugs and touches. She doesn't tell me that she loves me, but she does tell me that she still loves me.

We continue to talk things over, and we've planned to get together this weekend to discuss our expectations from one another once I move back in.

We're both scared of how things wil be, but we both want to see us back together. That's why we're taking our time and talking these things through.

I'm still floored that she has decided to drop the D. This speaks volumes compared to before when she wanted to keep the D going while we tried to work it out. That scenario was doomed to fail from the beginning, and it did.

She's trying to come back under the terms I had set forth months ago. She made it clear she needed time to see my consistency, and to make sure she could come back at 100%. If she was unable to come back at 100%, then we both agreed she wouldn't come back.

This is and will remain a work in progress. We both know that we have a long tough road ahead of us, but it's a road we're both willing to go down now.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept