Is he trying to communicate via song lyrics? My imagination? I usually listen to my gut with these things, but my gut is clouded with wishful thinking...what do you all think?
You've got to put a stop to this.
You can't hang on their words, especially when they are so dishonest. You can't try to get in their head and read their mind. You can't find logic in this crazy mess. It's gone, and so are they.
You have to watch their actions, and even then, you have to do it in a way as to where you aren't viewing them through rose colored glases. By that I mean, take a step back and stop looking for things like this. Stop trying to get in his head. Not everything he says and does is going to be about you or your old relationship.
I'll tell you what I've seen and had happen.
They love to keep you on a string. Doing exactly what you are doing right now. They'll do things like this and then pull the rug out from under you at break neck speed when you get too close. This will happen over and over if you choose to play their game.
You can't figure him out. HE can't figure himself out.
I hope you place your focus back on you. I hope you work hard to stop trying to read his mind.
