I'm a man. I'm not a little boy. I don't have to cry and whine to get my way. If I become the man I want to be, my W will love me all the more. That's the person she wants to be with. That's the man that she loves.
And frankly, that's the man she fell in love with.
Exactly! I'm so glad you read that book. It says what we try to pass forward here on the board.
As far as "asking" her about MC, I think it would be better to just get dressed and act as if and plan to go. After you are dressed you can say something like, "I'm going to our appointment." Don't ask her if she's going....just leave. That shows her something. It shows her that you are not clinging to her skirt-tail and it doesn't put the same type of pressure on her as it was before.
When you constantly check her temp to see "where she's at in this"....that puts more resentment in her heart. I'm speaking from personal experience.
Use that book as if it is the bible for manhood! Keep reading it until it has seared your brain.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
