So..he's buying a place to make a woman he's know for 5 months be happy? And he can't wait until he's legally free from you to do it? Is she getting kicked out of her place, maybe? Or maybe there is something about his upcoming retirement that is pushing him to think he needs to buy now? The VA requirements, etc.
And yes, please do stay with someone while he's in town..or if you think he's going to take things out of the house when you're not there, then have some big burly guy come and stay out there with you. I didn't think my H would do any of the things he's said and done. He hasn't hit me or anything, but he has said things that go against his very core and has had screaming rages over the most mundane things. These people aren't in their right frame of mind and are doing things that they normally wouldn't do. If he wants it bad enough, and sees you as the only thing standing in his way..well, you just never know what could happen. I'm not trying to scare you, but just be proactive.
Gonna go and read now. I'll talk to you guys tomorrow.
Punkin..good luck tomorrow. I'll be watching to see what happens. I honestly think you should look up some of the guys on the forum..Puppy, Mach, TrueGritter, Jack3beans, Allen, Eric..and see what their take is. I don't know how to specifically look someone up to ask them something, but most of these guys are on the forum every day and have a pretty good grasp of people in MLC and guy behavior in general. Maybe because they are guys??!! Anyway, I'll probably have some kind of weird dream about you tonight, because I'm worried about you.
We have family over so I have missed some stuff. Your H may've forgotten what's in the trunk ... they do get very forgetful. I just don't understand why he would think that you would sign your name to a mortgage (if that's what the papers are) where he will be living with OW. He's nutso to imagine you would do that. Sometimes, they don't quite connect the dots.
Anyway, good luck with the meeting if it actually takes place. Sometimes, they say they're going to do something then just don't.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Your H is truly out of his mind right now. Thank God for your mental strength. It'll help keep your H from making the biggest mistake of his life.
My H is doing things I could never imagine him doing. He has definitely lost who he was and ow has been able to manipulate him in ways I never thought possible, much less even tried out of respect for knowing who he was and what he believed. He is not the man I knew and loved.
I'm guessing you're seeing the same thing with your H. Protect yourself Punkin. This is money that is rightfully half yours that they are trying to get you to sign off on. YOU were first and to h&ll with what the little witch is trying to use your H for.
Thanks for your prayers and support. I feel very confident this morning, and I look wonderful, if I do say so myself.
He may not even come, true, but perhaps Mr. Wonderful will walk in and sweep me off my feet. Yeah, right.
All I can say is that I'm not signing anything until my lawyer has a CLOSE look at it, and that's after I have a CLOSE look at it.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
