Hey Maria, I wanted to call you before you went away to catch up and wish you well on your hols.. but seems you are away from..tonight?? I hope you have some healing time together..
Anyway, I agree with FB2. Wierdly, the thing that worked for me in the early days (and your R seems to have been on a go slow drip drip drip of improvements so..) was to actually shower HIM with s*xual energy and affection. Logically it felt HE should be doing that to me, to win me back, pay me attention/compliments, but I did the reverse.. in the early days it was me making all the effort with the fancy underwear, telling him how handsome he was and initiating s*x and kissing him awake etc. It restored our s*xual R very quickly so we gelled again as a couple and then the rest, as they say, is history.
It sounds counterintuitive right, but it worked. I dont know if that helps at all, or this.. dont be afraid, unconfident, dont give in to doubts and insecurities you feel when he doesnt notice your pretty dress, or listen to the negative voice that says he doesnt see you as a woman... He does notice, he just doesnt show it, trust me.
