Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

PDT, I do know now. She is not jabbing out nice things while throwing in the D talk. I don't care any longer. I just want to take care of myself at this point. She sent me a list of items that she wants from the house, along with parenting plan and child support demands. She said that if I didn't have an answer on the parenting plan by this weekend, that she would procede with out me.

I used this opportunity to use your suggested response and do so. I also reminded her that I was the one pushing for the parenting plan to get worked out first. So I am going to start on that seeing that is what matter most to me. It felt good to be able to remind her that I am not on her schedule, that this was her ideas, and that I wasn't going to speed things along just to make her happy. That my kids and myself are my priorities now.....

Thanks again PDT, that response was exactly what I was looking for.....