The kids will not see you as the bad guy either way. They know you have done everything possible to save your marriage. I believe that it does not matter who files as long as you did the best you could to keep your family together, and you have done that and more.
Take care of yourself.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
