Got to see my atty yesterday.. filled out papers for counter suit. At this point I still don't have a job so atty said ask for alimony - we can always take it out but very hard to put in. Also asking for primary custody to keep kids in their schools (W has been looking at houses in another school district)
I am supposed to sign them Thursday. I have to say that I am not sure if now if the right time or if I should sign and have atty hold them for a while. W seems to be slipping again, going from calling/texting and even tonight she called to say she was leaving work and would be home soon. She has not done that for 3 weeks! However, she did stop wearing her rings again and was been more withdrawn the last 2 nights once she is at home.
I've been very upbeat, making sure to say good morning, good night, good bye, drive safe etc. Only slipped in one compliment last week, probably won't stand for more than that right now. I just feel like I was feeding her "no emotional support" complaint and I was not happy being so withdrawn since that was another of her complaints. Life in the house SEEMS to be going smoother but that could all be smoke from her thinking she is getting what she wants.
I am confortable with proceeding towards D, in fact I almost look forward to it being over so I can get on with my life. If I had a job it would be even easier. I actually seem to be noticing a little interest from unknown females while out and about, some quite young (compared to me that is) and very pretty.
If anyone could give me a nudge, or even a 2x4, to get me in the right direction I'd really apprieciate it.
