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That which I find encouraging about the "cat toys" writing is that he does not encourage depressive, belly aching and whiny behavior. He encourages strength, confidence and resolve. I read from him a lot of being an individual, knowing your strengths and weaknesses and staying true to yourself if your someone else no longer wants to play as a team.

Maybe, never have I read him say, "its ok, everything is going to be all right" when some other man writes that he lost all his hard earned DB'ing because he asked his wife to reconsider and she snapped.

I have read him call a lot of men "wussies."

I believe if more people here encouraged others as Rob does, we would read a lot less people writing how a majority of these marriages are doomed to fail.

"Prince Charming" is also used as a term to refer to the idealized man some people dream of as a future spouse.

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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
That which I find encouraging about the "cat toys" writing is that he does not encourage depressive, belly aching and whiny behavior. He encourages strength, confidence and resolve. I read from him a lot of being an individual, knowing your strengths and weaknesses and staying true to yourself if your someone else no longer wants to play as a team.


Pay attention LBH men out there.... ^^^^^^ THAT is attractive. wink

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Robx deserves some kudo's no doubt about it, as well as Puppy, coach, and many, many others..

Cheers to you all, and for working with so many of us out here, and changing our perspectives, thoughts, feelings, and lives!


M: 41
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Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
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I see a alot of new posts....please read Robx's story...ESPECIALLY if you are a LBH. This is how you need to do it.

It's hard, It hurts like hell, but YOU need to do exactly the same thing.

Robx and others will bump the "Setting them Free" post.

Read both. Just do it. No discussion...Read it and apply it. If you screw up...stand up, brush yourself off and DO IT AGAIN.

It works! No guarantees in life, but these 2 posts are the best chance you have of succeeding.

I personally attest to the failures of the opposite and I'm already starting to see differences by applying them.

Please, read.

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