I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

ladies--you are terrific!

OK just finished working out for an HOUR! (boo yah or whatever they say!) and am going to pour myself a glass of wine while soaking in the tub. I think I will listen to John Mayer!
(Calgon, take me away!)

But while I was working out, I watched "It's Complicated" for a second time. WOW, the perspective is so different from watching it back in January or whenever. If I wasn't too embarassed, I would search through my threads to see what my take was on it the first time.

So this time, all the BS that Jake (Alec Baldwin's character) is telling Jane (Meryl Streep) is sooo blatantly obvious! But there are a few moments that stand out like how they can reminisce (sp) about stuff, how they still "know" each other's habits, and how she said to her shrink "I just need someone to TELL ME EXACTLY what to do!" when trying to figure out if she should continue her affair with her exH. Man, can't we relate to that one?(being TOLD what to do in gray sitches) I know I wanted that "post" stbxh telling me he was uncertain about D-ing, and man, do I have an awesome shrink as well!

oh and am halfway through it....still more to watch. Steve Martin's character admits 2.5 years post divorce he still is recovering. Damn, I will NOT be ruminating and analyzing and pining for stbxh in 2012! Heck no!