SOBear, I guess you'd have to read way back. DAnce Queen started 'Jayce's Thread' for me since I kinda was hijacking at first. I've also had conversations with Cinco, most recently on his Drive thread. If you have the time, read back a ways. Besides H being kinda LD, he has that late middle age physical problem that comes from years of smoking, and generally not taking care of himself. I have to say there's been a positive turnaround in his usual mood. I can think of several reasons, but I wonder if its dawned on him that I'm in a better mood overall if we ML more often. I'm probably not a good source of advice for a SSH. I don't get women who can take or leave sex, let alone not want it at all. Jayce
me: 66 H:60 2 adult sons 2 grandsons adult daughter deceased 5/05 me:Part time trainer H: plant suprv.