SOBear, I guess you'd have to read way back. DAnce Queen started 'Jayce's Thread' for me since I kinda was hijacking at first. I've also had conversations with Cinco, most recently on his Drive thread.
If you have the time, read back a ways. Besides H being kinda LD, he has that late middle age physical problem that comes from years of smoking, and generally not taking care of himself. I have to say there's been a positive turnaround in his usual mood. I can think of several reasons, but I wonder if its dawned on him that I'm in a better mood overall if we ML more often.
I'm probably not a good source of advice for a SSH. I don't get women who can take or leave sex, let alone not want it at all.
Jayce


me: 66
H:60
2 adult sons
2 grandsons
adult daughter deceased 5/05
me:Part time trainer
H: plant suprv.