Is Arkansas a no fault divorce state or does Adultry play a role in the outcome?

Be careful, Punkin. I don't know anything about PTSD, but I do know alcoholics and I do know how people can freak out when backed into a corner. I don't think you should say anything about the D or adultry or what any of your plans are. Just politely tell him you're not signing anything until your lawyer gives the ok. and leave it at that. Walk away, tell him you have to meet someone. Gees, with you out there all alone, and him in town all pissed off..it could get ugly. Maybe you should have someone stay at the house with you while he's in town..or maybe you should stay at one of your kids' house while he's in town.

How long has he been seeing sweetie?