Truly, truly, I am not afraid physically of him. He has never touched me in that way, and wouldn't cause a scene. I don't intend to be anywhere with him that is not in public at anytime.
The things we've talked about have helped me think it through, and I think he's been told to get his butt out, and is not willing to move back into the trailer, instead wanting to provide sweetie with the horse ranch she so wants. It accomplishes things for him on two levels. 1) she is probably getting tired of the wait, and 2) obtaining the property gives him a new high.
As I said, I intend to be polite but direct. I'll simply put it to him that way. I'm not being pushed into anything, and we have nothing to talk about while she is in the picture. Period. If he bows up, I'll use the adultery card. Give him a list of witnesses to expect, either in alphabetical order or in order of appearance. That should shut him down.
