Hey Safie and JoJo...Long time.......

Hope things are ok with both of ya

Well things just keep chugging along here. Every day a little better. W is STILL in our room. Have not had another "occasion" since that one night. I am getting better at NOT taking things personally. Of letting go. W has been doing little things like buying me things for snacks to take to school. My 35 year class reunion is coming up this weekend (I just found out about it last week) W actually wanted to go... She has not been to the last two class reunions I went to. AND she did not want me to go to her last one. BUT.... IT's $75.00 a person so we can't afford it.
W is talking more and more about going back to work. I am not pushing it and when something does come up I will give her all the encouragement I can. Another surprise... W is taking son clothes shopping for school. She is taking him to the next city over where my school is. She wanted to know what time was my lunch and suggested that her and son stop and pick up lunch for me and they and we can eat together. Another little thing... Yesterday when I got home from school I was leaning against the counter in the kitchen looking at the paper. W came in and asked how my test was. Not thinking I said "I am not going to tell you until I get a kiss" and she came over and put her hands on my chest and gave me a kiss..... It is amazing how empowering you feel when you say what you want and get it without begging.

I got a B+ BTW


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know