oh yes change that last.

the babysitter will only do it to the endof this week and then she's done.......

says it's to far not enough money. so i'm back to square one with the childcare part.

i am refi my house, lowering payments on some other stuff in order to protect and survive

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline