of course he'll try to get you alone..maybe suggest that you meet after work..since he's in town and all. Go get a drink or dinner. And then he'll start in on trying to get you to sign the forms because he NEEDS them signed by thursday or the closing won't go thru. And who cares if the OW is at the closing or not..if he wants things to be civil he for sure wouldn't have HER there. why would he invite you to a closing for a home that you aren't going to share anyway..and expect that you'd be interested in going? He's sounds pretty fogged in. My H was like that for several months too. The look in his eyes was dead, blank..there was no emotion about anything. He was like a zombie just going thru the motions..and making some really really bad decisions. I thought he was mental.
