Wow. I missed alot today, NM. I'm really impressed how you handled "the movie". I don't know if I mentioned it before but the marriage I'm DBing is #2. When my first marriage ended(no DBing, multiple A's and abuse), I was so unnerved by going out again that I totally freaked out the first time my bf and I "saw a movie". Poor guy, he was so sweet but I couldn't see him again.