Well I decided that she can have the OM. I'm not going to fight for her anymore and she won't stop seeing him or having him spend the night. Found out from family members that she changed her FB profile from married to was married, now in a relationship- it's complicated. a couple of my family members responded back by saying she is sick and that of course it's complicated when you cheat on your husband. I don't have a FB account so I cannot personally see what she says.
I decided to cut off all ties and get my name taken off of everything associated with her. First order of business for me was to get rid of her email address she has on my business domain. I actually just changed the password and looked through the remaining emails. Nothing that bad, but did notice that her FB profile is linked to that email addres. Was thinking of changing her FB password to lock her out of the site.
This is going to be a very bad legal battle during the divorce, but I've decided that since she didn't give me a chance or play fair that I'm going to bring out all the big guns and try to get as much as I can, no matter what legal problems may arise. Then her OM probably won't want her anymore when she ends up with hundreds of thousand of dollars in debt when the welfare dept make her pay for all back payments and reimburse her for the expensive surgery she just had.
I'm just waiting to get the tooth money tomorrow before I start the process. If she doesn't give it to me then there will be a full blown war. I know I shouldn't be vindictive, but in my case I think that revenge could be sweet and eventually hurt her even more than she has hurt me.
