Hi Lance, we agreed to settle and divorce when our business was sold. This decision was made during our period of n/c. The financial stuff is almost sorted and so the idea was to do the divorce at the same time and get it all over and done with. Divorce came up in conversation b/c we were talking financial. I told H divorce would sever the connection between us except as parents and that's when he said, "Don't do it then." I felt confused so the topic was left hanging there.
I too am thinking he's testing the waters. I had said the connection would be severed between us but I didn't explain why as I did above....probably couldn't articulate it very well at that time.
