Well, I've decided to go to study group for my test in the morning, so I will probably now be home later than he is! So, we'll see whwhat things are like when I get home. How about:
"It's late so why don't we just relax and watch something together for half an hour instead of trying to fit in the 30 min. conversation. We've both had long days. I know the week in review is up, but perhaps we're better off postponing that discussion. It's a stressful time with school orientations for the boys and getting D off this weekend. I have a lot going on as well and none of us really need added stress right now with talk of leaving and divorce. We can discuss your participation in this family whenever everyone is better prepared this coming week."
Not sure if I want to say we'll talk tomorrow or just "this coming week" because truly, it's better for everyone if we wait until getting D moved. I just can't imagine how terrible it would be if he left and then I had to get her off to school this weekend and he were to want to go as well...
