I must have missed that part when I read thru this thread. The OW tried to pass herself off as you???!!! It amazes me the women that our wonderful loving husbands get sucked in by when they go thru this crap. My Hs OW was really manly..we thought she was a lesbian (not that there's anything wrong with that) and we talked about it for several months after she started working with him...wondering if she was or wasn't. And she was horribly homely.
