And I think it's weird that he wanted the trunk you mentioned so badly..and it's all memorabelia from you and your time together! My H did that too. He took all the cards and letters, pictures that I had given him..when he moved out to "think things thru". He never did say if he looked at them or what the reason was. I don't get it. Why would they want that stuff if its really over. So, the logical answer to that is that it's not really over. Infortunately, they're not logical.
I must have missed that part when I read thru this thread. The OW tried to pass herself off as you???!!! It amazes me the women that our wonderful loving husbands get sucked in by when they go thru this crap. My Hs OW was really manly..we thought she was a lesbian (not that there's anything wrong with that) and we talked about it for several months after she started working with him...wondering if she was or wasn't. And she was horribly homely.
Thanks for the read. It really is touching. I'd send it to A$$hat if I thought he'd read it. Just got off the phone with USAA. Suddenly, my SS# is back, and the phone hint has changed. Amazing. According to them, I would be signing a Waiver of Non-Borrowing Spouse.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
Still no response to my email about whether or not he wants the trunk.
Just in case, I plan to look like 1.5 million dollars tomorrow, should he feel the need to stop by. Maybe 2 million.
USAA said if I no signy, he no gety mtg. Should make for an interesting day tomorrow
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
OMG, punkin..I'm re-reading your thread..just this new one..and laughing hysterically at your comment about chewing Xanax dry..man that cracked me up. I have Xanax too for special occasions. Never chewed it dry tho. Too darn funny.
Oh..wanted to say..I saw AC/DC in concert last January and it was faboolus!