And I think it's weird that he wanted the trunk you mentioned so badly..and it's all memorabelia from you and your time together! My H did that too. He took all the cards and letters, pictures that I had given him..when he moved out to "think things thru". He never did say if he looked at them or what the reason was. I don't get it. Why would they want that stuff if its really over. So, the logical answer to that is that it's not really over. Infortunately, they're not logical.