during the first few months of our ordeal, the anxiety and depression caused both of us to drop a lot of weight.
recently he went on vacation with his father and then went home to see mom and dad. they sent him home with a suitcase full of mom's homemade baking.
when we lived together, i would limit my h's intake of sweets because it wasn't good for him. he was health conscious and he was gaining weight. so i would curb his sweets intake.
now that he's on his own, his lack of impulsive control is starting to show through. he gained 30 lbs recently and it's not muscle. let's see .. indulging on sweets, beer, and eating rich food while on vacation with nobody there to watch you .. hmmmm .. geez, i wonder how you gained all that weight?
what's funny is .. he thought by staying married to me, he was going to have a heart attack and die. (in order to save himself, he had to hurt the one that he loved - by d-ing me) here i am, trying to look out for his health.
