yup... well he's a male and he will learn from his father too...
BUt it sounds as if he has very little impulse control... You must have married my brother.. he behaves this same way... he's nto a germaphobe... He panics when anything's livelihood is theratened... One of his friends watched him cross check a perfect stranger into a brick wall to keep the guy from stepping on a grashopper lol
Same fits, tantrums, crying, defensiveness... all of it...