he panics and he throws a temper tantrum. he starts name-calling, gets agitated, and sometimes i think he is on the verge of tears but can't cry in front of me.
she gets agitated big time. her anxiety takes over and it's like a crazy house. nobody confronts anybody in their family for fear it will cause a riff between members. his father gambled a lot of my h's money on bad stock trades. h keeps it inside and won't say anything but i know it eats away at him. his mother's germaphobic ways and anxiety disorder that makes everyone's life miserable. h and fil put up with it.