Hi Mark,

Please stick to one thread (ie this one) it helps us follow your sitch....


Originally Posted By: MarkIII
Question on the last post, My wife kept my kids away from me for over a month and a half, the courts stepped in and ordered what they call domestic relations. Until that report is done and submitted I only see my kids every other weekend from 10am-6pm and every Wednesday night 5pm-8pm with telephone calls on Tuesday and Thursdays. I do not want to be a weekend dad either and want 50%, how can I fight this? I have full custody of my four older kids for the past 5 years. (I'm scared and pissed off I'm being treated like a second class person right now). I ask my wife for more time and its either Nope or I dont know. Or I will ask my lawyer... Well he is a real BLEEP BLEEP.. Tells her go with what the court says and no more... I'm hoping and praying to god that tomorrow we have a 4 way meeting me her and the lawyers that she will start to cooperate with me somewhat.
I was all for saving my marriage but now really do not know. The girl (and yes she is a girl 24) is being very in mature now and getting uglier by the day. All to prusue more happiness (EA) and she no longer loves me..
Any one ever been thru the system with the kids? What can I do to gain the upper hand here?

Thanks


Use the domestic relations investigation to your advantage. Show them that you are a good person and a good parent. Do everything they recommend....

Also work on these:

Forgiveness, Patience, Listening, Understanding, Validation, Empathy, Compassion, Faith, Hope, Kindness


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712