Thanks Puppy! Wow, you really drive a hard bargain! I like that - squandering marital assets. Pretty sure H doesn't see it that way.

I am guessing that since he never admitted an A, he thinks I dont' know & therefore should just sit back & divvy up everything 50/50. Which pretty much I have. I don't have the stomach for fighting over money or crap. But I admire those who have such kahunas!

Thanks for the idea. I don't have the raging anger I had over it Dec. I am betting H would deny up & down he had an A, squandered anything, and it was for work. And since OW was his boss, it could technically be true.

I'll search my soul tonight to see if I have the fight left in me. As of right now it's not there frown

I really respect your opinion, so you've given me something to consider Puppy! Thanks! ((((hugs))))