Just as long as the waiting game does not drive you nuts...
Do you think she knows or suspects you are "waiting" for her to come back. If so, then according to the experts this is breaking the DB rules, but then again they are not familiar with your specific sitch.
If you really sense she is having second thoughts (or is still confused), then trudge forward and monitor her closely. I have been told 100 times to move forward like there is no chance to reconcile. I suppose this tactic helps with emotional well being and gives the S something to think about when they realize complete detachment is close.
You are the best at staying positve and only good things will come from that.
