LOL! Are you going to stay stuck with a once a month or less sex rate?
Oh.
My sex rate was nearly every day from 2000-2007. Sometimes doubling up on the weekends, all over the house, anywhere.
During the affair, I was dropped to nothing for 6 months. Oh - btw, she STOPPED DOING EVERYTHING. No more cooking, helping, nice guestures a complete and total blowout.
In 2008 I did it approximately 2 times a month. At the time I noticed the sex would not make up for the poor treatment.
From 2009 to today I have done it 6 times. 2 of them in the last month.
She's feeling I'm getting my $hit back, and the other day said some crap like "Well, were still married on paper.". LOL.
Like you I could have never guessed it would be a complete and total blowout, and I could have never have guessed that verbal and emotional abuse can be totally heart wrenching, you'd rather it be physical abuse at times.
