And the main thing at this point is that D has as little exposure to this girl child as possible. It's been bad enough but D is still small and hopefully will eventually forget her.
My other hope is that D will get more attention now, since she had to compete with a big sister all this time.
Hopefully OW will find another sucker to be sugar daddy for a while.
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M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
I'm finding that I am still falling into patterns where I wind up taking up X's slack.
I am annoyed with myself and plan to make an attempt to remedy this. I realize I did not stand up for myself during the M and I am still having trouble w/it.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
Forward, I think your biggest problem is that you think about your XH way too much, and the OW for that matter. I just think you should spend more time focusing on you.
It is hard to trust the new guy we are still somewhat wounded from all the betrayals, lies ect from x this could be a good experience to see and know that we can start fresh
we can create new and better R Ive experienc3d that in my R it is good he is nothing like xh whether it lasts or not it has been a great experience for me I was lucky to have it--its still scary I still have lots of work to fo on me though trust comes from within peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
