Yep, its teh same as Sunny right? They pick something obscure in jaded and rewritten family history and use that as ammunition to act on impulse...
It's teh same problem... neither man has found their adulthood... They haven't nutured a healthy level of impulse control in them and carry on their childhood well into their fourties.. it happens...
That's the key difference between adults and children : impulse control.
Granted adults have it in limit too, but children have a LOT LESS impulse control than most adults...
DBing is largely a lesson in impulse control too.. that's what its so healthy for you to do it.. MWD makes it a point to teach you to be paitent, control your anger, your outbursts, your name calling etc...
In short, act your age...
But these two men just don't get it and they need a LOT of WORK to get there...
The men on this forum learn impulse control when having to combat infidelity.. its necessarily nurtured in the affair buster, you NEED to control your impulses to fight effectively
These men see no need... There you have it
And arguing over wedding costs?
This sounds like some shark feeding frenzy at the candy store... pathetic... just say no and exit
