I guess you could take it that way, but I am beyond DBing this relationship. I was simply letting her know that there really wasn't a reason for her to wait. I didn't mention it before, but I followed up that statement by saying that I didn't have any expectation of that being why she wanted to wait and that I just wanted to be clear that was the only valid reason for a delay. Fact is, I don't care anymore. I just want this to be over so I can move on with my life.
M - 43 WAXW - 42 Married - 24 years Together - 25 years S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09 S - 22 Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night D-day - 9/17/10