Not sure I agree, pinhead. I filed for the D and she is signing the papers sooner rather than later. What she controls is the timing of the D and I was able to successfully push that along sooner than she was planning by getting her to agree to not wait.
M - 43 WAXW - 42 Married - 24 years Together - 25 years S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09 S - 22 Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night D-day - 9/17/10