Boarding School
Therapy

etc...

You aren't offending anyone... yes he does need to grow up.. but he wasn't raised well so he didn't quite make it.. i think you understand...

You are giving his anger way too much credit.. It's not liekly anything mroe than manifest childishness... Children get angry.. they get angry all the time

You should follow SunnyD's thread.. Her husband has a lot of the same impulse control problems.. and spending issues too...

But he blames Sunny for everything.. He won't take any responsability.. he starts finger pointing at every exchange they have

And how he wants to divorce because he says he can't forgive her... for what? lol