It wasn't with the intent to throw it away. But it was all about letting it go. I wanted to dump our history on him to deal with it, decide to keep it for the kids (or not). All this stuff is still in the same places throughout the house (not in the line of sight, but on shelves, packed away with Christmas things, in closets and files, etc.) All the obvious things (family photos, etc.) have long been put aside.
But, in the light of day, I realize that he did deal with our history when he left and took his baby pictures, his high school year book...and left the rest.
Ugh, oh well. Can't control dreams - it's a good thing I am awake, now.
Took an eHarmony quiz to determine if I was "over my ex and ready to date." It said that the memory of him is like a tattoo on my heart and that I should be in therapy so I don't hurt some innocent guy I try to date. ALLLLlllrighty, then.....
