Just had an interesting conversation with her, in which she said ILY more times than I have heard it from her in the last year. She wanted to know why I was moving so fast, and if I was trying to protect her from committing adultery by doing so. I told her it had nothing to do with protecting her, but was because I wanted her to understand the totality of the consequences of her actions and that I wasn't going to stay in limbo waiting for her to figure out her life.
She reiterated that she really didn't have issues with me, but felt like she needed to be on her own. She gave me some more WAW-speak BS and I just listened without responding. I did ask how soon she was planning on signing the papers and she said she was planning on waiting. I let her know that unless that was because she was ready to admit she f-ed up and was ready to get her head out of her a$$, then she needed to just go ahead and sign them and get it over with.
We talked for about 25 minutes, most of it good, and she is signing the papers in the next week.
M - 43 WAXW - 42 Married - 24 years Together - 25 years S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09 S - 22 Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night D-day - 9/17/10
