Under NYS law these are the grounds for divorce (we do not qualify for any) Unless he lies b/c we filed our taxes separately, and he had his acct say we lived apart for 6 months prior to April 2010.

These grounds include 1) cruel and inhuman treatment; 2) abandonment; 3) confinement in prison; 4) adultery; 5) living apart for a period of one year or more pursuant to a equation or judgment of separation; 6) living apart for a period of one year or more pursuant to a written separation Agreement duly acknowledged.

I got pregnant in Feb 2010. We have not been really separated if he's impregnating me.

Does this mean we have to be Legally separated for one year (beginning in Sept of this year when he sees his lawyer) or does it count that he's moved out since March of this yr?


M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug