Tuesdays with morrie is ok, but its a bit touchy feely...
Yes it is pouring gasoline on there...
MWD makes it pretty clear... Don't fall into thier behaviour.. they WILL PICK FIGHTS... YOU need to man up and not bark back in anyway...
It IS just like working with a child. you wouldn't yell back at yoru children would you? Seriously?
THe most upsetting thing is having to handle your spouse like a seven year old boy, but that's what he is righ tnow...
You can handle him like he needs handled or you can exit and leave him deal on his own... but barking back is the LAST thing you want to do... if he gets jeuvenile - EXIT the CONO or direct it to a healhty place... if you can't steer the ship, jump out of it before it hits a rock
YOu dont' have to answer everything he says... you don't have to defend yourself
YOu just have to set an adult example and steer clear of his childishness... its hard I know but doable